One of the best parts of documenting weddings is the vast number of people I get to meet every year, but it’s bittersweet sometimes. You come into people’s lives so heavily invested in their story, pour every ounce of yourself into the 8-10 hours you have with them and 99% of these people you’ll never see again. Thankfully, Lauren & Trevor are in that 1% category. They were guests at a wedding I captured very early on in my career and once I wrapped up coverage on that wedding, I spent some time around a bonfire talking. We stayed in touch over the years and I always hoped that I’d be able to re-enter their lives once they decided to take that next step in life. When I got that email from Lauren years later, I let out an audible “about time” to myself. She told me they were looking at Pennsylvania wedding venues near where they lived but knew one thing for sure, they wanted me there and they wanted a wedding that meant something to them. I was honored, of course.
Their wedding was a true down-to-Earth, only-the-things-that-matter wedding with no frills. I say that in the most admirable way possible. I know it’s probably hard for some couples to disregard traditions that have been a part of weddings for decades but I truly respect the ones that are able to do that. They settled on a wedding at a state park near their home. Brought in food (TACOS!) from a nearby vegan restaurant and let the day be what it would be. I felt so much freedom from a story-telling perspective because I knew I had their full trust. This was a special one for me.